Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Her Last Taxi Ride


I came across this story today and thought it was so sweet.


A sweet lesson on patience. 

A NYC Taxi driver wrote:

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked.. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard
box filled with photos and glassware.

'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.

She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her.. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.'

'Oh, you're such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive
through downtown?'

'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly..

'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in a soft voice..'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.

We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired.Let's go now'.
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.
They must have been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

'How much do I owe you?' She asked, reaching into her purse.

'Nothing,' I said

'You have to make a living,' she answered.

'There are other passengers,' I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug.She held onto me tightly.

'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.. Behind me, a door shut.It was the sound of the closing of a life..

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day,I could hardly talk.What if that woman had gotten an angry driver,or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.

We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.

But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

A little birdie told me...

Whitney's Post:

      Birds...hmm...I'm not sure if I've ever blogged about Birds before. :) However, I am now because they have really been entering mine and Nathan's day to day life lately. There are two instances from the past week that have involved birds, and it makes me wonder if God is trying to tell us something - what that is...I have NO idea.
      Here is the first bird instance: 
     It has been EXTREMELY hot here in New York and we don't have central air. We have a few AC window units but we try to keep them off as much as we can, because it can get so expensive. So- one evening when the sun was setting, I went into our guest bedroom and put my elbows inside the window sill so I could feel the breeze. This window is on the third floor of our building and the view is of our little backyard area that is fenced in. As I was looking outside, daydreaming about possibly having a cookout in our backyard sometime...I start noticing the pretty birds that are in the trees making themselves known by their little chirps. I start to really pay attention to them because my parents have tons of bird houses in their backyard in Tennessee and they get to see gorgeous birds up close all the time, so I wanted to see if this kind of bird life existed in our backyard as well. Then all of a sudden, a beautiful red bird landed on the tree limb near my window. Then I saw a beautiful butterscotch colored cat walk in the alley behind our apartment. I was so excited by the little animals that I yelled to Nathan to come see what I was seeing, and also to enjoy the glorious breeze that was giving me a nice break from the heat.
     Right as he walked into the guest bedroom, I noticed that the cat had gotten into our fenced in backyard and was walking towards the table in the grass. I was just about to point out the beautiful red bird to him when all of a sudden right when Nathan looked outside with me, the cat pounced on a bird that I hadn't even noticed was sitting on the table in the grass. The bird tried to fly away, but the cat kept swatting at it like it was a toy. Nathan started gasping and laughing, like this is what I was watching the whole time. I was so shocked by what was happening, I felt so bad for the bird that I asked Nathan if we should run downstairs and shoo the cat away, but Nathan wanted to see what was going to happen in the 'natural circle of life'. The bird was wounded and could only hop- hop -hop around in the grass like he was trying desperately to fly away but the cat had handicapped him. What was so miraculous was that all the other birds from the trees started chirping like crazy as if they were calling for help, then they would take turns swooping down in front of the cat like they were trying to distract him so the injured bird could hop to safety. Nathan and I were cheering from our third floor window as if it was some sort of basketball game! Nathan was yelling "C'mon bird!! You can do it!! Just hop through the little holes in the fence to the other side!" and I was yelling "Hey birds! just all attack the cat at once!!"
     Then we noticed something interesting...the cat wasn't trying to catch the bird at all so that he could eat him or kill him, he just wanted to play. The cat would swat at the bird and then sit back on its hind legs and watch the bird to see what it would do next. And that cat was not giving any grace to the bird. If the bird hopped at all,  the cat would chase it and swat it back down. The cat was like "haha, nice try. try again." (meanwhile the birds are still chirping so loud trying to save their friend)
     THEN..all of a sudden - enters a black and white cat into our backyard...out of nowhere! He pounces onto the grass, grabs the bird in his mouth, and trots off into the alley away from our house while the butterscotch cat just sits in our backyard confused at what just happened, and the birds slowly stop chirping.
    Didn't expect that. Not at all. Poor Bird.
    I guess our backyard even reflects New York and not glorious birdhouse Tennessee.
     It's a hard knock life.
   Second Bird Instance:
    Nathan goes to work at a fitness studio in manhattan where he works at the front desk. As he goes to open the front door to enter, he sees that there is a bird laying on the ground against the door, blocking where Nathan can enter. He slowly opens the door and the bird doesn't move. He can tell that the bird isn't dead, but definitely hurt. One of the trainers comes up to Nathan and says "Dude...that bird just totally smacked into the glass front door and I guess is dead on the ground now- did you see it?" and so then Nathan spends the next 30 minutes sitting at the front desk watching this poor bird experience what seems to be the last minutes of his little birdie life. Nathan said that the bird would open its mouth so wide and its eyes would get big like it was trying sooooo hard to gasp for air and then it would just fall on its face. (haha, the visual is kinda funny) Nathan said it was sooo pitiful.
     Then the trainer from the gym went outside to move it somewhere other than the front door and he goes to pick up the bird by putting his hand underneath him and all of a sudden the bird just flies away...
     Hmm.....so- was the bird... acting?  Playing dead??? Or did he just need a little nudge to get off the ground? Who knows...


So- in conclusion, it hasn't been a good week for the birds here in NYC.

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

What's been going on with us, you ask?

Nathan and I have been settled back in NYC for about two months now since we've been off the ship. It always takes a while to get back into the swing of things once you have been out of them for a while. We are still trying to find consistent part-time work and looking for agents and great teachers, etc. But things have really been looking up for us since we have come back.
 Nathan has gotten a Christmas gig this year where he will be in Singin' in the Rain and A Christmas Carol at The Fulton Opera house and he will be becoming a member of Actors Equity! We are sooo happy and he is really looking forward to working at this great theatre.
  In recent news - Nathan and I have both just booked a gig TOGETHER! We just received the call this week that we will be performing in "Hairspray" at Media Theatre, where I will be playing Amber and he will be playing Link! We are SO excited to be playing 'boyfriend and girlfriend' and get to play opposite each other at an equity house. The show goes up in October and closes right before Nathan starts his gig with Fulton. The Lord is truly blessing us and we are just ecstatic for what the Lord has in store.
   For July and August we are trying to take classes and work with our temp agencies as much as we can before we start our theatre gigs. Of course, it is extremely HOT up here in NYC and are trying to get used to not having central air. (Thank God for the few air conditioning window units that we DO have though...sheesh)
   Our Landlord has two bikes that he said we could use whenever we want, so Nathan and I rode around our neighborhood for an hour and really got to see parts of our neighborhood that we had never got to enjoy before. Our eyes are being opened to a fresh new start here in the city, and we are loving what we are seeing! :)
   Hopefully the blogs will be staying updated more frequently from now on! (crossed fingers)

Monday, June 25, 2012

Nathan's 26th Birthday

We celebrated Nathan's 26th Birthday this past weekend here in NYC. It was the most perfect day that we could have asked for. It started out early with home made french toast (first time I've ever made them...they turned out pretty good!) and then we went to try and get General Rush Tickets for a Broadway Matinee that afternoon. Nathan waited in line at 'Anything Goes' while I waited at 'Spider Man'. We were waiting for the box office to open at 10:00am so we could get the $30-$40 tickets for the show! There were about 30 people in each line and we could have gotten tickets to either one, so we decided to go with "Anything Goes" because it has a closing date, and Spider Man is still going for who knows how long.
  After we got our tickets, we headed down to South Street Seaport. This is such a beautiful location in the city. It is right by the water where boats dock, with lots of restaurants and shops along the cobblestone streets and water. We watched a race that was happening where about 100 people were swimming around the Manhattan Island, supposedly they swam for 8-9 hours!! Incredible to catch a glimpse of that! We ate lunch by the water and walked around a few of the shops; the weather was perfect!
   We then headed to "Anything Goes" where we had wonderful seats and really enjoyed it. Right after the show we headed up towards Lincoln Center to eat dinner at the Rosa Mexicano with 2 of our favorite couples: Marissa and James, Katherine and Sam. After we ate tons of yummy mexican, Marissa pulled out six red velvet cupcakes that she made for Nathan's bday - they were delicious, what a treat!
    We got out of dinner right around 7:30pm, just in time to go to Bryant Park and catch the TropFest Film Festival. (These are the moments where I just love that we live in NYC). This is the largest film festival in the world, that is based out of Australia and they hosted their first year in New York on Nathan's Bday! It was an outdoor free viewing of a few short films, each under 7 minutes and then one was awarded first place and $20,000. Not only was it awesome sitting at the park in perfect weather watching these great short films with our friends and thousands of strangers, but to top it off Hugh Jackman hosted the event!
     Nathan's bday was sooo great and couldn't have gone better. Thank you everyone for sending the cards, texts, and Facebook posts - they made him feel super special!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Since we've been gone!

Since it's been a good 6 weeks since our last blog, it's time to do a quick update. Whitney and I are officially back on land. We finished up our contract on April 22nd and got back to NYC around 6pm.
IT WAS SO SURREAL! We immediately ordered sushi from our favorite sushi place and just laid around our couch for the rest of the night with our jaws dropped. We couldn't believe that the 9 month contract was finally over. I mean don't get me wrong, working in the Caribbean together was not bad at all but it's been amazing being back in the world where you can do WHATEVER you desire.
Since our time back, the Lord has been extremely giving. We had a wonderful weekend with our great friend Eric Percuoco from Iowa. We saw a few Broadway shows to catch up for some time away from the theatre world.
Ghost the Musical was excellent.. the visual effects were stunning.
Godspell was a lot of fun and nostalgic for Eric and I since we were in that show together in high school.
Newsies was out of this world entertaining. Some of the best dancing I've ever seen!

Whitney and I have gone to a few auditions since we've been back and it's been pretty nice because this is the down time for auditions. We have been able to get seen at equity auditions and it didn't take us all day like normal. We've been getting a few callbacks which is always nice. Nathan got a pretty great offer with an Equity company doing Singing in the Rain, he just has to now accept it and he will be getting his equity card. Fantastic news! That will start in November, 2012. Whitney performed in front of two different agencies and they both seemed extremely interested in her work. She will be hearing later on if they want to represent her. So for now, we are doing great being back... things are starting to take flight for us.

We are currently visiting our amazing families. Just got into Tennessee yesterday and will be finishing in Kansas and then Iowa. Hooray for family time!!! It's only been 10-11 months since we've been home!!!

We'll post pictures later... because there are lots!

Sunday, April 8, 2012

2 more weeks and officially back in New York

Happy Easter to all!

Whitney and I did not get Legally Blonde, they start rehearsals 2 days before we get back so it didn't work out. But great news for us because now we will be back in our home and back to our life! We are so excited to start back up again and we will be planning our family trips very soon. Love to all!

Friday, April 6, 2012

Blue Hole

On Wednesday, 11 of us went to a place near Ochos Rios, Jamaica called Blue Hole. It was an hour and a half away and it was gorgeous. We had been wanting to go this entire contract and it finally worked out. The water was so blue and fresh feeling. We jumped off of waterfalls, climbed up waterfalls, and swam underneath and through waterfalls. Our tour guide brought us to 3 different waterfall locations. This was an amazing experience. The day was perfect, the water felt so cold and awesome. An added bonus was also the fact that it was just our group and a tour guide. So we didn't have to share the experience with strangers:) These experiences are the ones that will last a lifetime and keep me counting my blessings for life and for this job. Pictures don't jusitify it's beauty.


 I was also soo proud of my wife for jumping, this is a huge fear of hers and she conquered it and had a blast.



Underneath this waterfall there was a cove and a little cave like hole you could climb up and through - it was really tight space but we squeezed through. I wanna go back!!



No, we didn't attempt to jump off of this one. Too scary. 

Natural beauty - there is nothing better. I mean look at where we were!!!